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There are many things that - [A Female Legalist View on Women in Ministry Part Two](https://royallifeministries.org/2026/06/a-female-legalist-view-on-women-in-ministry-part-two/) - In my early twenties, I was listening to a famous female preacher on Christian radio. The Holy Spirit used her to speak directly to my heart during a time of tremendous pain. I’m now amused by the fact that I thought I was listening to a man for the longest time because she had a - [How do I live by grace?](https://royallifeministries.org/2026/05/how-do-i-live-by-grace/) - Let me clarify what I said in my last blog. There is nothing wrong with following the words of scripture that encourage us to walk in a way that is consistent with who we are in Christ. When you do that, you are truly being the authentic new creation. But this is not accomplished through - [What the Bible teaches about law and grace!](https://royallifeministries.org/2026/04/what-the-bible-teaches-about-law-and-grace/) - Many teachers are afraid to teach the truths of our freedom from the law because they are concerned that people will have a license to sin. I love what Bob George used to say before he left this earth for heaven. “People don’t need a license to sin. They do quite well without one.” These - [Excerpts from "Experiencing Jesus. Really."](https://royallifeministries.org/2026/03/excerpts-from-experiencing-jesus-really/) - We know that a lot of wonderful things have come through the invention of the internet. However, we all know that a lot of harm has also come through the internet. I loved what John shares in his new book. The following are excepts from John Eldredge's new book, "Experiencing Jesus. Really." John brings up - [The Lost Art of Honesty](https://royallifeministries.org/2026/01/the-lost-art-of-honesty/) - Years ago, I wrote a blog talking about shifting sand. At that time, I was frustrated around the topic of dieting. When it came to eating healthy, the headlines seemed to change every day. One day you could eat something and it was fine, and then the next day it was not fine. Fast forward a few - [Receiving can be hard](https://royallifeministries.org/2025/12/receiving-can-be-hard/) - I’m sure all of us have heard the saying, “It’s better to give than to receive.” And I do believe that is a true statement. I am a giver. If you are familiar with the “Five Love Languages” I score number one on the love language of “gifts.” However, God called us to a support-based ministry many years - [You Have A Choice](https://royallifeministries.org/2025/11/you-have-a-choice/) - Tim and I started a conversation on an evening cruise on our 47th wedding anniversary in Madeira Beach. One of my favorite things in the world is being on a boat. And we live where we can easily go for a sunset cruise, even though much of this cruise was in the moon light. The clocks were set back - [God teaches us who we are and whose we are!](https://royallifeministries.org/2025/10/god-teaches-us-who-we-are-and-whose-we-are/) - An excerpt from the book, “Known", by Aubrey Sampson. Every summer I take my boys fishing. Well, I should clarify. I walk them down to the dock, helping them juggle their tackle boxes and fishing rods and life vest so that my dad, Pops can take them fishing. The day goes a little something like this: Pops helps them - [When We Want Justice](https://royallifeministries.org/2025/09/when-we-want-justice/) - On August 22nd of this year, thanks to the internet, we saw the brutal killing of Ukrainian refugee Iryna Zarutska on a Charlotte train. This murder shocked the world. On September 10,th many in the world saw a brutal assassination of Charlie Kirk, co-founder of Turning Point USA on a Utah University campus. The gloves came off so - [The Pursuit of God](https://royallifeministries.org/2025/08/the-pursuit-of-god/) - Tim and I are reading a classic that we have actually had in our library for years. It’s “The Pursuit of God” by A.W. Tozer. This book is beyond rich and full of gold nuggets. I’m a highlighter so this book is getting devoured. I’d like to share a few portions from the book. “You - [I struggle too](https://royallifeministries.org/2025/07/i-struggle-too/) - I’ve recently been in one of those weeks where I seemed to forget everything that I knew was true about who I am. I can chalk it up to spiritual warfare, however I need to remember the truth. The enemy is merely an errand boy in the hands of a loving God. God doesn’t cause - [Reconciliation](https://royallifeministries.org/2025/05/reconciliation/) - In my last blog, we talked about all relationships will contain ruptures and repairs. As I shared last time, this is not something I learned as a child. I came from a family that ended relationships when there was a rupture. I wonder where they learned that trait. How do you feel when there has - [Rupture and Repair](https://royallifeministries.org/2025/04/rupture-and-repair/) - I would love to know how old you were when you learned that relationships are about rupture and repair. Honestly, I never heard that term until two years ago and it stopped me in my tracks. Yes, relationships can be wonderful. Relationships can be challenging. And relationships can be messy and painful. If a relationship - [Suffering](https://royallifeministries.org/2025/03/suffering/) - What do you do with suffering? I don’t know about you, but I don’t normally handle it well. Whether it is emotional pain, relational pain, or physical pain it is never welcomed. And if you said that it was welcomed, I would question your mental health. Many times, when my pain involves a shocking betrayal - [Are you self-aware?](https://royallifeministries.org/2025/02/are-you-self-aware/) - I recently listened to a podcast by Dr. Rob Reimer and Susie Larson. I am sharing some of the gold nuggets from this important conversation. Whether it is in your marriage, or in your individual relationships, how would you rate your emotional maturity? Do you believe most of your relationships are healthy? What about your - [Why Pray? (Part Two)](https://royallifeministries.org/2025/01/why-pray-part-two/) - I have so many funny memories as a Nana to seven wonderful grandchildren. One memory is when our first grandson was saying the blessing at our house. He also had a headache, so I encouraged him to pray about his headache. He said his sweet blessing, took one bite of food and looked up at - [Why pray? (Part One)](https://royallifeministries.org/2025/01/why-pray-part-one/) - Have you ever thought about that question? If God already knows everything, and He’s going to do what He wants to do, why pray? Occasionally, I will put a prayer request on Facebook, and I will get numerous responses. Am I believing it really make a difference if two pray or forty-two pray? Or am - [To My Fellow Strugglers:](https://royallifeministries.org/2024/12/to-my-fellow-strugglers/) - Do you ever hear these words going through your mind? “You should be further along than this!” “How can you still struggle in this area?” “What’s wrong with you?” I still hear these lies in my head. Some seasons are worse than others. And the longer I know Jesus the more shame I can feel - [There Is A Battle](https://royallifeministries.org/2024/12/there-is-a-battle/) - (Excerpt from Waking the Dead by John Eldredge) The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life and have it to the full. John 10:10 The cumulative effect of days upon years that we do not really understand, is a subtle erosion. We come to doubt - [Did We Return The Favor?](https://royallifeministries.org/2024/11/did-we-return-the-favor/) - We are entering the season of gift giving. Since my "Love Language" is gifts, I love this season! When gifts are your language, it doesn’t mean that I only love receiving gifts. I especially love giving gifts. And I love not falling into the trap of keeping score. It’s hard to sometimes receive and just - [From Beauty to Chaos](https://royallifeministries.org/2024/10/from-beauty-to-chaos/) - In my last newsletter I entitled a section, “From Beauty to Heartache.” I talked about going from a beautiful retreat at Ft. Walton Beach to home a few days after Helene. Even though we did not suffer damage to our condo, so many did. Not just damage but life altering destruction. There are no words - [An Upside Down Kingdom](https://royallifeministries.org/2024/08/an-upside-down-kingdom/) - Have you ever thought about all of the paradoxes that are in the Bible? A paradox is a seemingly absurd statement or a self-contradictory statement that can actually be true. For instance, you have to die to live. The first shall be last and the last, first. Whoever wants to be the greatest must - [Controversies and Coloring](https://royallifeministries.org/2024/07/controversies-and-coloring/) - You may be thinking, “What in the world does controversy and coloring have in common?” It’s actually something I have been thinking about for some time. How does an opposing view and coloring connect? I’m an avid adult coloring lover. I used to say that I did not have an artistic bone in my body, - [Two Sides of the Cross](https://royallifeministries.org/2024/06/two-sides-of-the-cross/) - Tim and I are rereading one of our favorite books, "The Rest of the Gospel" by Dan Stone and Greg Smith. What a blessing to be reminded of the truths that really changed our lives. So many believer's are trying and striving to live the Christian life, instead of understanding what really happened at the - [God and Fun](https://royallifeministries.org/2024/05/god-and-fun/) - Thanks Lord, for the opportunity to go speak at the convention this past weekend in Dallas. It’s been a while since I have taught, and You knew this was something I needed. I didn’t need it in a survival type of way. But I was ready for an adventure. I find it so interesting to - [Where was Jesus?](https://royallifeministries.org/2024/04/where-was-jesus/) - Symbols are all over the Bible. Many times, people would make something or purchase something to remind them of the incredible experience they had with God. Over and over, you will see God tell His people to “remember.” This is because frail human beings have the tendency to forget so easily. Throughout my story, I - [Emotional Healing](https://royallifeministries.org/2024/02/emotional-healing/) - Many times, emotional healing will come to your heart layer by layer. The expert healer A/K/A/ Father, Son and Holy Spirit knows exactly what they are doing! They know what we can handle and when we are ready to look at a painful incident. If you have experienced a lot of hurt in your life, - [Agree to disagree](https://royallifeministries.org/2024/01/agree-to-disagree/) - As I scroll across Christian debates on social media, my curiosity gets the best of me. As I start reading all the comments on a post I feel interested, and then disheartened, and eventually I feel irritated. However, I do understand where people are coming from. Let me explain. When you grow up in - [The Gift of Presence](https://royallifeministries.org/2023/12/the-gift-of-presence/) - Did you know to remain present in a conversation or event it takes intention? Throughout my life I've been aware that I have the tendency to live for tomorrow. I can rush through what's happening today because I am preparing for tomorrow. Can you relate? I wonder how many things I've missed out on over - [Thankfulness](https://royallifeministries.org/2023/11/thankfulness/) - Does it come natural to you to give thanks? Or does it take some real intention? We just celebrated Thanksgiving 2023. Many families spent the day cooking, eating and sharing meaningful conversations. Most of us ate too much and prepared to go Black Friday shopping the following day. It's the beginning of "the most wonderful - [Haunted by False Guilt](https://royallifeministries.org/2023/10/haunted-by-false-guilt/) - Did you grow up in a family that taught you the importance of loyalty, and that you are responsible for others? In some families, protecting the "family name” was to trump all other ambitions. Things like “blood is thicker than water” was the slogan of many childhoods. Don’t get me wrong. Our families are extremely - [Relaxing - It's good for the body.](https://royallifeministries.org/2023/09/relaxing-its-good-for-the-body/) - Relaxing can be easier said than done. Especially in the high-strung world we live in today. Our culture is full of anxiety, uncertainty, disunity and conflict. So how can we relax when so many scary things are hitting us from every angle? If you have followed my blogs, you will recall a couple of - [This blog is rated R for Restricted. Real talk about real issues.](https://royallifeministries.org/2023/08/this-blog-is-rated-r-for-restricted-real-talk-about-real-issues/) - This writing is coming straight from my heart. It may be one of the most vulnerable blogs I have ever written. Many of you know I am a survivor of early childhood sexual abuse. A few years ago, I wrote a book entitled, "There is a Reason: When Pain Keeps Knocking at Your Door." It - ["Young Lady, who do you think you are?"](https://royallifeministries.org/2023/07/young-lady-who-do-you-think-you-are/) - “Young lady, who do you think you are?” Those words became imprinted on my brain with a permanent marker. I rarely felt good about myself as a young child. Shyness, child-hood abuse and buck teeth was a recipe for a pitiful self-image. The few times I did feel good about myself, it seemed like I - [How do I help those who are hurting?](https://royallifeministries.org/2023/05/how-do-i-help-those-who-are-hurting/) - There are many kinds of death – the death of a loved one or friend, the death of a job or career, the death of a relationship, the death of hope or a dream. One way or another we are talking about a loss and the person experiencing the loss feels as if God should - [Believing Lies](https://royallifeministries.org/2023/04/believing-lies/) - It’s been quite a morning of revelation for me. You never know when God may open your eyes to more healing and give you revelation of why you struggle in your life. I teach, and I know that healing, evolving, or growing is a lifelong journey. No one ever “arrives”, like I believed when I - [That stinking flesh](https://royallifeministries.org/2023/03/that-stinking-flesh/) - Let’s not put the cart before the horse. Before we talk about flesh, we should first talk about what God given needs were ours at birth. We were created to desperately need love and acceptance and to know that we are a person of worth. What is the flesh? A simple definition of flesh: The flesh - [Is the Asbury University revival legit?](https://royallifeministries.org/2023/02/is-the-asbury-university-revival-legit/) - If you are active on social media, follow any Christian podcast or blogs, you probably have seen comments about the ongoing chapel service that started February 8 at Asbury University in Kentucky. A simple chapel service that the students are used to attending every week turned into a supernatural event that has drawn people, young - [Hurts and Expectations](https://royallifeministries.org/2023/01/hurts-and-expectations/) - If you have experienced a good amount of rejection and hurts in your life, I want to say I’m sorry. Life is hard, people are complicated, and relationships are often messy. Many times, the hurts that I have experienced in my life came from having expectations on another person. I’m going to be gut level - [The Gift of Assurance](https://royallifeministries.org/2022/12/are-you-sure/) - The assurance of our salvation is important!: The Spirit you received does not make you slaves, so that you live in fear again; rather, the Spirit you received brought about your adoption to sonship. And by him we cry, “Abba Father.” (Daddy) The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God’s children. Rom. - [The Gift of Jesus](https://royallifeministries.org/2022/12/the-gift-of-jesus/) - Jesus Arrived! But when the set time had fully come, God sent his Son, born of a woman, born under the law, to redeem those under the law, that we might receive adoption to sonship. Gal. 4:4-5 For today in the city of David there has been born for you a Savior, who is Christ - [Who do I believe?](https://royallifeministries.org/2022/11/who-do-i-believe/) - If you have been in the circle of people who attend church, or who were raised in a Christian home, or consider yourself religious, you may be recognizing the many different ways that people are speaking out about their faith. Maybe it’s been that way all along, but it seems to me that I am - [Does God Really Speak Today?](https://royallifeministries.org/2022/10/does-god-really-speak-today/) - We all understand that God speaks through His Word any time it is read or remembered. We should never take for granted that we have the Bible, and it remains to be the most purchased book in the world. It truly is a supernatural book that can speak to our hearts at exactly the right - [Self-care](https://royallifeministries.org/2022/09/self-care/) - What does the bible say about self-care? The first scripture that comes to mind is Matthew 16:24 NLT which says, “If any of you wants to be my follower, you must turn from your selfish ways (some translations say self), take up your cross and follow me.” So, do we deny ourselves, or is it - [Guard your heart](https://royallifeministries.org/2022/08/guard-your-heart/) - The scriptures tell us to "Guard our hearts above all else for it determines the course of your life. (Proverbs 4:23) But what does it mean to guard your heart? At Royal Life Ministries we encounter people on a weekly basis that have a presenting problem. Many times this problem is causing the client emotional - [CHOICES](https://royallifeministries.org/2022/07/choices/) - There is nothing easy about the choices that have to be made when a young single lady finds herself pregnant. I've been there and I understand the shock, confusion and vulnerability you feel. My heart is to help you understand the unbelievably rippling effects of the choice you will be making. I suppose the question - [Healing from abortion](https://royallifeministries.org/2022/07/healing-from-abortion/) - Do I dare touch this topic? Or should I say do I dare not touch this topic? Being a person who likes to avoid conflict and arguments, it could be easy to avoid such a topic. However, knowing what I know about hurting young ladies who have chosen abortion, my heart and mouth can't be - [Forgiveness is a choice](https://royallifeministries.org/2022/06/forgiveness-is-a-choice/) - I knew forgiveness was important, but I didn’t have a clue as to how to forgive. Our counselor took us to Colossians 2:13-14 and explained to us that Jesus forgave us unconditionally. It says, “And when you were dead in your transgressions and the uncircumcision of your flesh (which is how we were born into - [Does God care that I'm hurting?](https://royallifeministries.org/2022/05/does-god-care-that-im-hurting/) - Recently, our family went through a serious and scary emergency with our 13-year-old grandson, Elliott. Our son took him to Urgent Care thinking he had a virus. Elliott's glucose level was over 700, and he was almost in a diabetic coma! Urgent Care called an ambulance and he spent two nights in ICU at Eggleston - [Perfectionism - You can't live with it and you can't live without it](https://royallifeministries.org/2022/04/perfectionism-you-cant-live-with-it-and-you-cant-live-without-it/) - Do you deal with perfectionism? It can be a sneaky thing that creeps up on you with different names. I never saw myself as a perfectionist because my coping mechanism a/k/a flesh pattern is to quit, give up and withdraw. My belief system was I can never do anything right so why even try. So - [Youngsters, save all you can for retirement!](https://royallifeministries.org/2022/03/youngsters-save-all-you-can-for-retirement/) - I decided to write a very practical blog today. Have you ever wished you could turn back the time? Most of us would say no, but in the area of finances, we sure wish we could. I'm writing this blog for all of you young couples out there in internet land. Do yourself a favor. - [Our story on the Act 2 Podcast](https://royallifeministries.org/2022/02/our-story-on-the-act-2-podcast/) - Have you ever heard our story? I was honored to speak on the Choosing Him Act 2 Podcast that was released today. We hope it is a blessing to you. If you know someone struggling, feel free to share this podcast. If you are interested in Zoom counseling, give us a call. We are here - [Redeeming Love - No spoilers](https://royallifeministries.org/2022/01/redeeming-love-no-spoilers/) - Have you ever read something in the Bible that made absolutely no sense to you? I have to admit that I have, many times. Sometimes weeks or months later, I hear someone explain the passage from a perspective I never considered before, and all of a sudden it makes perfect sense. The book of Hosea - [My Christmas by Easton Phillips](https://royallifeministries.org/2021/12/my-christmas-by-easton-phillips/) - Easton, age 8, asked if he could write a blog about our Christmas. He wrote it out and actually typed it himself. on Christmas Eve I go to my grandma house and open presents play with them they are so cool. we go to are dads house and go to sleep and wake up and - [I Had a Dream](https://royallifeministries.org/2021/12/i-had-a-dream/) - As many of you know, we moved to Florida in June. This is our first Christmas holiday driving back to GA to spend time with our kids and grandkids. I wanted to make it a special time for our family. I woke up one morning with a thought. Wouldn't it be so cool if we - [Wanted](https://royallifeministries.org/2021/12/wanted/) - Doesn't it feel good to be wanted? Being wanted is totally different than being needed, even though they both can feel wonderful. If I am needed, I have something you need. If I am wanted, you simply want me with no expectations. I'm wanted for who I am, not for what I can do for - [A Tribute to our Marriage](https://royallifeministries.org/2021/11/a-tribute-to-our-marriage/) - Once upon a time in a land far away, 7 1/2 hours to be exact, there was a damsel in distress. One night under the starry disco ball she met her dancing boy. The Distressed Damsel was in a whole new world and she loved it. She had recently escaped the land of heartache and - [Can I have two identities?](https://royallifeministries.org/2021/10/can-i-have-two-identities/) - There is an article circling the internet that is calling Steven Furtick, and a couple of worship bands, false profits. This came about after he put a post on facebook that said, " The process of discipleship is not God changing you into something else - it's Him revealing who you've been all along." Discipleship - [The God of Comfort](https://royallifeministries.org/2021/09/the-god-of-comfort/) - There is nothing like the supernatural presence of God. Whether it be in a counseling session when a client is having numerous aha moments, or whether it is deep quality time with your family and friends. God is all about engagement, connection and community. And if you know me very well, you will know that - [Choosing Trust by Tim](https://royallifeministries.org/2021/08/choosing-trust-by-tim/) - Several weeks ago Rebekah promised you would hear from me regarding our move. I'm the first to admit that I am NOT a writer, therefore, Rebekah is helping with this post. This coming weekend we will be traveling to GA to get all of our possessions out of storage and bring them to our new - [Where do you live?](https://royallifeministries.org/2021/06/where-do-you-live/) - We recently moved to FL and I am on a learning curve when it comes to finding my bearings. To say I am directionally challenged would be an understatement. But even the saavy in geography would have problems here. I literally have a folder in my "notes" on my phone that says FL STREETS. (Tom - [The Unknown](https://royallifeministries.org/2021/05/the-unknown/) - Our lives look nothing like it's ever looked before. We are leaving our home and moving to another state. Lots of people have done this before but the unknown can be scary. When have you experienced a time when the future was unknown to you? I can tell you about so many times in my - [It's time for an adventure](https://royallifeministries.org/2021/04/its-time-for-an-adventure/) - If you have read either one of my books, you will know that I do not believe in coincidences. My life verse has always been Proverbs 16:9 - "The heart of a man plans his way, but the Lord establishes his steps." Our lives have taken a huge turn in this journey called life. No - [A Caring Heavenly Father](https://royallifeministries.org/2021/04/a-caring-heavenly-father/) - Tim and I recently made a life changing decision. We are moving to Florida. As friends reach out to get together, I am loving the conversations that we are sharing. We are not saying goodbye but see you later. No doubt, we will be back often to see our family. We will miss our lunches - [Those Wonderful Aha Moments](https://royallifeministries.org/2021/03/those-wonderful-aha-moments/) - Aha moments. Those moments when you literally feel the light bulb come on. Don't you just love them? Aha moments can be exciting or painful. If it is painful, there may be some work to do. One possibility is there may be someone you need to forgive. I love the fact that the Holy Spirit - [Do you FEEL loved?](https://royallifeministries.org/2021/02/do-you-feel-loved/) - As a young child, I remember saying, "It doesn't matter if I am loved, if I don't FEEL loved it will make no difference." I was referring to my family of origin but I didn't know I had so much wisdom at such a young age. Let me say up front that we should not - [Certainty](https://royallifeministries.org/2021/01/certainty/) - Are you sure? Are you positive? We are living in a world where anything can be published, recorded or shouted from the roof tops. Friendships are sometimes strained, reputations are ruined, and sometimes apologies are necessary to save face. Conspiracy theories are at an all time high and our world is more fragile than ever. - [You are Royalty!](https://royallifeministries.org/2012/01/you-are-royalty/) - We tell our counselee’s that truth is what God says, regardless of what you feel, think or how you behave. It’s hard for us to separate behavior from identity. - [Justice As I Am](https://royallifeministries.org/2012/01/justice-as-i-am-2/) - When we teach on forgiveness, I often define the word unforgiveness first. What is unforgiveness? Unforgiveness says, “You hurt me. - [It's Better Than Fair](https://royallifeministries.org/2012/01/its-better-than-fair/) - I’m so thankful that our Heavenly Father gave us EVERYTHING in Christ. (II Peter 1:3) We are not slacked! We are not lacking! We are not deficient! Will you believe HIM? - [Live from your core!](https://royallifeministries.org/2012/02/live-from-your-core/) - There has been a common theme weaving through my thoughts for several days. I've been in physical therapy for a strained muscle and as I learn new stretching exercises I keep hearing my therapist say, "Move from your core." Even when playing on our son's WII it told us to stand from our core. What is our core spiritually speaking? - [Are we only forgiven if we forgive others?](https://royallifeministries.org/2012/02/are-we-only-forgiven-if-we-forgive-others/) - Controversy is something I do NOT like! Some people seem to thrive on saying things that "get your attention." I'm not one of those people! However, I believe my Heavenly Father is leading me to write a blog that could be "controversial." - [Can our heart still be wicked?](https://royallifeministries.org/2012/02/can-our-heart-still-be-wicked/) - Looks like I'm writing another blog that could be seen as controversial. I guess Father has decided to stretch me in this area. This topic is quite fitting since this week is Valentine's Day! Jeremiah 17:9 tells us that "the heart is deceitful and desperately wicked, who can trust it?" BUT - [The Bible is clear that something died!](https://royallifeministries.org/2012/02/the-bible-is-clear-that-something-died/) - Oh my goodness! I'm on a roll and I can't stop! I never expected my blogs to be so much "teaching." And, like I said, the last thing I want to do is stir the pot with critics. BUT I have to say the things I am sharing are near and dear to my heart. There's that word again! (Read my last blog for more info. on heart) As Tim and I discussed my last blog something hit me like a ton of bricks. - [What do you think happened to Whitney?](https://royallifeministries.org/2012/02/what-do-you-think-happened-to-whitney/) - I have never been a groupie but the death of Whitney Houston has really touched me. What a talented and beautiful lady who did not seem to KNOW who she was in Christ. Watching people like Whitney downward spiral has made me want to resist ever having money or fame. Not that I have any possibility of either. :-) Seriously, what do you think happened to Whitney? She obviously was raised in a church and in a home that taught her the gospel. No one really knows for sure who has trusted Christ as their Savior but I honestly think she did. Why didn't Whitney understand that Jesus was enough? - [How can I NOT judge a child abuser?](https://royallifeministries.org/2012/03/how-can-i-not-judge-a-child-abuser/) - God often speaks to me through music. Last Sunday as I was worshiping God at my church, it was as if the words of the songs were jumping off the screen. Words that brought comfort and words that gave me a level of understanding about God that I have never grasped before. As I listen week after week to horrifying stories of abuse and heartache, and as I continually work through some of my own hurts, I hear some of the same questions over and over. How can God forgive people that commit horrible crimes that wound and damage His children beyond recognition? - [Two Questions AND One Answer](https://royallifeministries.org/2012/03/two-questions-and-one-answer/) - I often get asked, "Is forgiveness an event or a process?" I have to answer that question with YES! As we teach and as you've read in previous blogs, forgiveness is a decision, a choice, based on an act of your will. If you are IN CHRIST it is now YOUR nature to forgive. However, the healing from the forgiveness takes time. - [Eternal Life](https://royallifeministries.org/2012/04/eternal-life/) - When I was six years old I thought I received eternal life. I thought that meant I would now live forever with Jesus in heaven. But eternal life means so much more! Did you know that eternal life is a person? John in the book of I John is introducing Jesus to us in a similar way that Ed McMann introduced Johnny Carson on the Johnny Carson show. Heeerrreee's Johnny! Listen to I John 1:1-4 - [It's a GOOD Day!](https://royallifeministries.org/2012/04/its-a-good-day/) - I love this time of year! We have so much to celebrate as children of God. I'd like you to think about Good Friday and Easter from a different perspective this year. As you think about Jesus sacrificial death on the cross; would you also think about your death WITH Him on the cross? - [So what about boundaries?](https://royallifeministries.org/2012/04/so-what-about-boundaries/) - Great question. Just because we forgive someone does not mean that we always continue in the relationship. Remember, forgiveness is for you. Forgiveness enables you to heal and be emotionally healthy. Reconciliation and forgiveness are two different things. Reconciliation takes two people that are willing to face the disagreement and talk about where they both want the relationship to go from here - [Is healing a process or an event?](https://royallifeministries.org/2012/05/is-healing-a-process-or-an-event/) - Both! We are totally healed IN CHRIST! But sometimes it takes time for our emotions to catch up with the truth! I believe we sometimes heal in layers. - [Compare and you WILL despair!](https://royallifeministries.org/2012/06/compare-and-you-will-despair/) - The world that we live in bombards us daily with the temptation to compare ourselves with others. It is so true that if I compare then I will feel despair! - [The most awful "F" word - FEAR!](https://royallifeministries.org/2012/06/the-most-awful-f-word-fear/) - What are YOU afraid of? What has fear kept you from doing your entire life? God's word tell us that God did not give us a spirit of fear but of power. I knew that verse my entire life but it didn't make a difference to me in several areas. Fear is a powerful thing! We become absolutely convinced that we cannot do something or that if we do a certain thing something horrible will happen. We would be amazed if our minds could be laid open and we could see how many lies are in our brains that hold us back from so many things. Lies can feel so real and true! Satan is referred to in scripture as the father of lies. - [Lessons from a Jet Ski](https://royallifeministries.org/2012/07/lessons-from-a-jet-ski/) - What a month! I have been facing long seated fears and watching my Savior gently lead me through each step of my fear. This weekend I drove a jet ski by myself for the first time. No one can understand, unless they are me, how deep fear goes in me. - [Misunderstood](https://royallifeministries.org/2012/07/misunderstood/) - You see, I honestly believed in the early 90’s that if I missed my quiet time I would have a bad day. If I didn’t tithe, I would have an unexpected expense come up that week. I believe that personal view hurt the heart of God. In reading Romans 7:10 I discovered something Paul taught me, “I found that the very commandment that was intended to bring life actually brought death.” There was absolutely nothing wrong with my quiet time or my decision to give a portion of my money to the church or a ministry. But something that should bring life to me was bringing death. Why? Because I had made it a law! At that time in my life I had a distorted view of the principles in God’s word. I really did believe it was up to me to grow. Now I understand who I am in Christ and that God has written His laws on my heart. I understand that now as I live under grace I do because I want to, not because I should or have to. - [The Approval Addict](https://royallifeministries.org/2012/08/the-approval-addict/) - Do you ever struggle with caring too much what other people think? I grew up in a home where I heard often, “Young lady, what will the neighbors think?” Another saying I heard often was, “Birds of a feather flock together.” Now the people saying those things did not mean harm but boy oh boy did it affect me! As we teach on grace and identity, I often will ask my counselee where they got their false identity from. - [Emotions, Politics and God](https://royallifeministries.org/2012/09/emotions-politics-and-god/) - The subject of politics is not one of my favorite topics. I steer clear of conversations regarding the subject. I'm skeptical and find the best intentioned politician hard to believe. However, I know it's important to pray about my vote and follow what I believe to be God's will for me. I was channel surfing yesterday and came across a political talk show and heard a statement that jumped out at me. Katty Kay from BBC made this statement: "In politics emotions win over facts." Wow, that is not only true in politics but in many areas of our lives. This pannel was discussing that if a politican can connect to our emotions, it does not matter what their record states. - [Ghost, Fortune Tellers and Mason's](https://royallifeministries.org/2012/09/ghost-fortune-tellers-and-masons/) - I am so glad that I can choose to reject and disown anything from my past that I chose to previously embrace that was not of God. I feel like I am just “setting the record straight” that there can be no influence of this choice in my life or my ongoing family line. I’m stating and standing on the truth that my Heavenly Father gave me. - ["Becoming Me" (Body, Soul AND Spirit)](https://royallifeministries.org/2012/09/becoming-me/) - At a very young age, I was embarrassed and ashamed of my overbite. I had an exaggerated fear of the doctor and the dentist, so I wouldn’t even consider braces. My father used his tactic of humor to try to make me consider going to an orthodontist. His jokes about my teeth hurt me deeply. Remember that your real enemy is Satan, who sets people up to give you messages to confirm lies that he has already placed in your heart. - [The Rest of the Story - "Becoming Me" (Body, Soul AND Spirit)](https://royallifeministries.org/2012/09/the-rest-of-the-story-becoming-me-body-soul-spirit-part-two/) - I'd love to catch you up on what Father has been doing in my life since the writing of my book over four years ago. Within weeks I was driving somewhere and noticed miraculously that one of the orthodontist that my dentist wanted to refer me to was right next to the grocery store I shop at every week. I say miraculous because the sign was completely covered by a bushy tree except for one small area that showed his last name. I remember thinking, "How in the world did I see that?" - [God Is Not A Narcissist](https://royallifeministries.org/2012/10/god-is-not-a-narcissist/) - I can remember cleaning house years and years ago as a young wife and thinking about the verse that says, "If anyone wants to be first, he shall be last of all and servant of all." (Mark 9:35) I cried out to God, "Does it ALWAYS have to be about you and your way!" That's right; I have one of those relationships with God that allows me to be honest and real. This makes some people a little uncomfortable. - [What does God want to do with my pain? Part One](https://royallifeministries.org/2012/10/what-does-god-want-to-do-with-my-pain-part-one/) - I recently had some conversations with some friends who has a different understanding of suffering than I do. It's been good for me to think about what I believe and why I believe it. The prosperity teaching seems to be everywhere we turn these days. I've often felt confused as I listen to some of the teaching. Can I really make my life better by saying positive words or believing only good should come to me? We could all agree that life is hard! Suffering is inevitable! We grow through our suffering! BUT here's the question at hand. Does God cause suffering? Many I have recently met would say no. - [What does God want to do with my pain? Part Two](https://royallifeministries.org/2012/10/what-does-god-want-to-do-with-my-pain-part-two/) - God does not send suffering upon us, He calls us and sends us into suffering equipped with His life. - [What does God want to do with my pain? Part Three](https://royallifeministries.org/2012/10/what-does-god-want-to-do-with-my-pain-part-three/) - Friends, God lives in you. He feels your pain and is with you. He walks with you through brokenness. Hebrews 12:2 - fixing our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of faith, who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. Hebrews 4:15 - For we do not have a high priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but One who has been tempted in all things as we are, yet without sin. \ - [Do you believe?](https://royallifeministries.org/2012/12/do-you-believe/) - I love Luke 1:45 which says, "Blessed is she who has believed that what the Lord has said to her WILL be accomplished." I see numerous similiarities in this magnificent story to our experience in knowing Christ as life. Did you know you are highly favored by God himself? Like Mary, how can we comprehend that the God of this Universe favors us? Did you know that the Lord Himself is with you, really with you? Did you know HE indwells you and made you holy, righteous and acceptable? - [Starting Over](https://royallifeministries.org/2013/01/can-i-start-over/) - He reminds us who we are and how what we did made no sense since we ARE a holy and righteous child of the King. He brings us back to our senses! To put a law on ourselves or anyone else will increase the sin according to God’s word. Most people already know that what they are doing is wrong so they don’t need a judgmental reprimand. - [A Word About Marriage](https://royallifeministries.org/2013/02/a-word-about-marriage/) - It breaks my heart to hear story after story of two people living in the same home literally ripping each other to pieces day after day. Life is too short! You have an enemy! And your spouse is not the enemy! If you can get this one truth, you will be on your way. Your enemy, the devil, hates you and hates your marriage. And he is out to destroy it. Will you stand against him and fight for your marriage through the power of God in you? - [Fight your battles at HIS feet](https://royallifeministries.org/2013/04/fight-your-battles-at-his-feet/) - The following week God began to speak to me through Joyce Meyer in one of her daily televised messages. Listen to her words: “Discover how to turn pain into victory. You will have a time of hurt in your life where you wait on God to be your vindicator; it’s what you do in your waiting that determines your outcome. We need to spend a lot more time worshipping God instead of worrying. As we worship God, the enemy is defeated. The battle is not yours but God’s.” - [Can I trust my emotions?](https://royallifeministries.org/2013/04/can-i-trust-my-emotions/) - I have a love/hate relationship with my emotions. I feel things deeply. So that means it's great when I feel positive happy emotions deeply but not so great when I feel the depths of sadness. My emotions have balanced out more in my older years but when I was young I knew if I had an extreme high then the horrible low was right on it's heals. In my case, I believe it was partially physical and partially from the deep wounds in my heart. - [Belief Systems](https://royallifeministries.org/2013/04/belief-systems/) - What if I believe something about myself that is contrary to my true identity? Do you have any definitive sentences that you make about yourself? "I am lazy." " I am ugly." "Something is wrong with me." "I am a mess." "I am ______" (you fill in the blank) If you allow yourself to think these thoughts; again, you will be in horrible pain and will continue to make choices consistent with your belief. - [Overwhelmed?](https://royallifeministries.org/2013/05/overwhelmed/) - As I talk with people through out the week, I often hear stories of complete exhaustion. As we all try to "make life work" we soon find that our efforts are unfruitful. Why would God allow us to put so much effort into trying to do the right thing and then discover disappointment. Is he some type of insensitive God that enjoys watching us struggle and crash? - [My one defense, my righteousness!](https://royallifeministries.org/2013/06/my-one-defense-my-righteousness/) - I cannot get the following song out of my mind by Matt Maher entitled, "Lord I need you." Especially the line that says, "My one defense, my righteousness." Do you get it? Do you understand what it means that you have been given the righteousness of God in Christ Jesus? II Cor. 5:21 It means we are RIGHT with God. It means when we fail, when we fall, when we act inconsistently with who we really are that we can run boldly to the throne of grace! - [Chocolate cake and Sexual Temptation](https://royallifeministries.org/2013/06/chocolate-cake-and-sexual-temptation/) - I just read a book that is helping me with my addiction to food. Guess what book I read? "When Good Men Are Tempted" by Bill Perkins. Did you know that men's struggle with lust is so closely related to a woman's struggle with food that it's fascinating? See if you can relate. (No matter where you struggle) - [Over Indulgence](https://royallifeministries.org/2013/06/indulgence/) - Where did we learn that if one thing is good then two would be better? Kids today are learning it from the AT&T commercial on t.v. right now that drives me crazy? A man is sitting at a kid's table asking them if more is better. The kids are saying, "Yes, you always want more, more, more!" If one cookie is good, two would be scrumptious. If you find a pair of shoes that you love, get one in every color. If one glass of wine is enjoyable, why not have two or three? This way of thinking can get us all in a lot of trouble. - [Can anger be good?](https://royallifeministries.org/2013/07/can-anger-be-good/) - We use the word anger a LOT in our ministry. So many people that come to our ministry are dealing with some sort of anger. Stuffed hurts build up over the years and come popping up at the most inopportune times. We often use the analogy that holding onto anger is like trying to hold a beach ball under the water. It's impossible. - [God uses our imaginations](https://royallifeministries.org/2013/08/god-uses-our-imaginations/) - Have you ever thought about the fact that God is omnipresent and ubiquitous? This means He is not limited by time. He is ever present, everywhere, all the time. The bible tells us that God is eternal. He had no beginning and He has no end. He was involved in every single thing that has happened in our lives. This brings up a very difficult question. If God was there, at every event, why did He not stop the pain that came into my life? - [Turn The Light On!](https://royallifeministries.org/2013/09/turn-the-light-on/) - I hope my blogs are encouraging. Many times I want to write about something that is going on in my life because I believe other's can also relate. I have been told for years by numerous people, "You are one of the most transparent people I know." This week that strikes me as a little funny because all of a sudden I felt the urge to hide. Hide my flaws, my weaknesses and my insecurities. Can you relate? I KNOW that we have an enemy and I should recognize his voice but I'm human and sometimes I forget. - [Naked Crazy Dreams](https://royallifeministries.org/2013/10/naked-crazy-dreams/) - I have to share a recent conversation between my grandson and my son: Hey Dad, ya know that time you wake up and it’s time to go to school…..and you walk to school naked? My son replies, “Uh, no!” Turns out Elliott had one of “those” dreams. My grandkid’s are hilarious! It’s funny how God can use them to bring specific thoughts to my mind when I need to write a blog. My dream would go like this…..I have a really important appointment first thing in the morning and I oversleep. I hear a knock at the door and I awaken anxiety stricken! I’m full of embarrassment as I stumble to the front door. - [Will the truth set you free?](https://royallifeministries.org/2013/11/will-the-truth-set-you-free/) - We often say that children are the best recorders but the worse interpreters. As I rethink that statement, I think I would say it differently. Human beings are the best recorders but the worse interpreters. I have also been taught that when a "small' human being is hurt, the belief that was adopted can be more damaging than the actual event. - [Do you want to decrease your pain?](https://royallifeministries.org/2014/01/do-you-want-to-decrease-your-pain/) - Tim and I see so many people through out the year in horrible pain. We, also, experience pain in our own lives because experiencing pain is a "human" experience. And we are all human. But what I see over and over and wish people could understand is that many times we make our pain worse by focusing on the pain and replaying the conversation or situation over and over in our minds. We then begin to BELIEVE many things about this situation that may not be 100% true. - [God's Name](https://royallifeministries.org/2014/02/gods-name/) - God said, "Moses, tell the children of Israel that my name is "I am that I am. In the gospel of John Jesus adopts this name "I am" as His own. When the Jews were questioning Him He said, "Before Abraham was I am." I am what? What does this "I am" include? - [All Things New](https://royallifeministries.org/2014/04/all-things-new/) - We believe that when you trust Christ as your Savior that you become a new creation. A brand new condition has come about and the old condition of being "In Adam" and left to our own resources to live life has died. As we grow in our new life, God our Father is teaching us how to let go of those old "ways" that are in our memory banks, to trust our Father and to allow HIM to convince us that we truly are a new creation. We honestly don't HAVE to look at life the way we use to look at life. - [Difficult Mother's Day or Father's Day?](https://royallifeministries.org/2014/05/difficult-mothers-day-or-fathers-day/) - I agree whole heartily with Dr. Cloud's blog below. Mother's Day and Father's Day can be difficult when wounds from the past have not been healed. The bible tells us to honor our Mother's and our Father's. Sometimes this has to be done by choice because the feelings are not there. We can choose to - [Rejection](https://royallifeministries.org/2014/05/rejection/) - Rejection! Now that’s a word that no one likes! Whether the rejection is real or perceived, it hurts! But I have great news for you; YOU are in charge of your emotions. Yeah, I know, it sure doesn’t “feel” like it at times. No pun intended. Let’s take a deeper look at rejection. - [Free to Choose](https://royallifeministries.org/2014/06/free-to-choose/) - I've had a burden for a long time to help women make wise choices with their health. I see so clearly how we, as women, are attacked viciously by the Father of Lies. He uses the world to teach us that we are only valuable and worthy if we have the perfect body and the - [Free from Self Condemnation](https://royallifeministries.org/2014/07/free-from-self-condemnation/) - I woke up this morning thinking about our freedom since yestesrday was the 4th of July. There were so many fun and grand celebrations. I'm proud to be an American and proud of our country. I can't celebrate Independence Day without also thinking about our freedom in Christ. Understanding this fact changed my life! - [Eating by faith](https://royallifeministries.org/2014/07/eating-by-faith/) - I've been trying to figure out the balance between obsession with weight and maintaining a healthy eating habit. I, like many of you, have tried several different diets and read several different books that take several different approaches. I loved many of the books and can say I took something from each one. - [The dentist and orthodontist that cared for my heart](https://royallifeministries.org/2014/07/the-dentist-and-orthodontist-that-cared-for-my-heart/) - I grew up with an overbite that caused me to feel extreme shame. Guilt says, “I did something wrong.” Shame says, “There IS something wrong with me.” I knew I wasn’t “like” the other people. If a small child would ask me why my teeth stuck out I’d want to die with embarrassment. I often talked to people with my hand in front of my mouth. Kids, of course, teased me. I also grew up with an extreme fear of EVERYTHING. It did not help matters any when I experienced a traumatic visit with a community health department dentist at a very young age. - [Control is overrated](https://royallifeministries.org/2014/08/control-is-overrated/) - How do you control others? Do you use intense persuasion, shame, guilt, or anger? How do you think you try to control your own environment? One of my major flesh patterns is to put up a wall of self protection. The problem with self protection is that when I keep other's out, I keep myself imprisoned inside. That's not freedom and Christ said he came to set us free. Honestly think about it. Can you really control whether or not someone hurts you? Control is an illusion and control is fueled by fear. - [Can God really speak through a dog?](https://royallifeministries.org/2014/08/can-god-really-speak-through-a-dog/) - He made the comment that it has been so much fun for him to watch God bring me freedom in the area of expressing love. This has been especially evident to Tim during the last six months as he has watched me thoroughly enjoy our new grandson, Harper. Oddly enough, he pointed out that a major part of my healing happened several years earlier with our daughter’s dog, Rocky. Now that was a complete and total miracle. - [Shifting Sand](https://royallifeministries.org/2014/09/shifting-sand/) - We live in a world that can be frustrating beyond words. Maybe not for everyone, but if you are anything like me, you like safety, security and things you can count on. Many will say that the answer to the world's problems is education. If we have enough education, we will see changes in the poor choices made by people in the world. But can we count on the education that we are being taught? It feels like everything is changing. - [When I don't want to live](https://royallifeministries.org/2014/11/when-i-dont-want-to-live/) - I believe there are very few people in this world that have never heard that nagging thought, "I do not want to live." Have you ever had so much pain in your life that you had a hard time shaking self destructive thoughts? We have seen suicide on the rise for many years. You hear so many opinions from , "It is so selfish" to "How could they do it to their family?" But if you have never been in their shoes, you cannot begin to understand that type of pain. - [Did someone label you?](https://royallifeministries.org/2014/12/did-someone-label-you/) - No one was more surprised than me when I first saw our 150 Christmas card order! Do you notice anything wrong with this card? Look closely. Do you see it yet? WE ARE NOT THE SMITH FAMILY! The Smith Family was on the Walmart Web site for that particular card. It wasn't clear where to change the name. After numerous attempts to order this card because of a computer that kept freezing up; I quickly hit send once it actually worked. It hit me thirty minutes later that I did not recall putting our name on the card. Now I find this rather funny! (I wouldn't be laughing if Walmart had not made it right for me.) It's amusing that our ministry teaches people their identity and then we send out a card with the wrong name on it! But it actually inspired me to write a blog. - [Have a love affair with your body](https://royallifeministries.org/2015/02/have-a-love-affair-with-your-body/) - I've not thought much over the years about my relationship with my body. I'm a very relational person and I love spending time with my friends. But I can't I've been very "friendly" when it comes to my relationship with my body. And sad to say, I'm finding that this is the case with more women than I care to mention. - [What's Chasing You?](https://royallifeministries.org/2015/02/whats-chasing-you/) - Do you ever think some people over do it when it comes to giving the devil credit for some of their struggles? I mean come on, people! The devil seems pretty busy with ISIS and world wars and kidnappings! Well, I have to admit; I'm one of those people. In our counseling ministry we talk to our clients about personal responsibility. When God begins to open our eyes to our wounds and flesh patterns; we encourage them to not get into the BED. My brilliant husband came up with name of this coping mechanism. BED stands for blame, excuse or deny. We encourage people to instead, own their "stuff." So I am aware that people like me who can have a flesh pattern of over spiritualizing things can sometimes be annoying. However, on the other hand, I have seen my share of spiritual warfare and I absolutely know it is real! - [We take care of what we love...or do we?](https://royallifeministries.org/2015/02/we-take-care-of-what-we-love/) - This title seemed so right to me earlier in the day. If we love ourselves, we will take care of ourselves. But it is never that straight forward. Even though I still think most of us do not have a love relationship with our bodies, we need more than love. We need God. - [And the Oscar goes to...](https://royallifeministries.org/2015/02/and-the-oscar-goes-to/) - I am so completely inspired to write this blog on this rainy Sunday afternoon. It is also Oscar Sunday! Yes, I am one of those people that look forward to the red carpet and the awards show. I know these "stars" are no different than you or me but I still find myself intriqued with their lifestyle, personalities and appearance. This morning I attended our home church as we do most Sundays. You've heard me say before how much I love my church. Today was once again exceptional worship and another eye opening message. - [It's Sunday, but Monday's coming!](https://royallifeministries.org/2015/04/its-sunday-but-mondays-coming/) - What a wonderful Easter! Celebrating the resurrection of our Lord and Savior never get's old. I am so glad that He loved us all enough to make a way for us to be united to Him and to live with Him for all eternity. I can only imagine how the disciples and followers of Jesus felt on Good Friday and on Saturday. Everything looked hopeless and dim. Their dreams and hopes were dashed. But then came Sunday...thankfully! - [Your Father is the King!](https://royallifeministries.org/2015/04/your-father-is-the-king/) - When is the last time that you witnessed something happening in your life that could only be explained by the intervention of God? I had a pastor years ago who asked that question quite often. It has been coming to my mind a lot this week. God loves to "show out" in our lives. Is there something going on right now that needs a supernatural intervention? We have a Heavenly Father that delights in doing the impossible. Luke 18:27 - [Fickle tastebuds](https://royallifeministries.org/2015/05/fickle-tastebuds/) - One of the things that I am learning is that my taste buds are fickle. When I was newly married to Tim, I only ate certain foods. I would say that I did not like something when I had actually never tasted it. It amazes me how convinced I can be of something totally ridiculous. As I slowly began to taste certain foods off of Tim's plate; I realized I did indeed like more foods than I thought. (Not sure that is a blessing! Maybe ignorance IS bliss.) - [When peace like a river attendeth my soul!](https://royallifeministries.org/2015/05/when-peace-like-a-river-attendeth-my-soul/) - How is your soul these days? By soul, I am speaking of your personality, your mind, your will and your emotions. Are you regularly experiencing peace in these areas or is there stress, anxiety and turmoil regularly knocking on your door? - [Are you sure?](https://royallifeministries.org/2015/06/eyes-that-see/) - Did you know that you can be completely convinced of something but be wrong? You have built your case in your mind. You know within a shadow of a doubt that you are right about a particular situation or choice that you have made. And later you see that you were completely off base. - [HALT](https://royallifeministries.org/2015/07/halt/) - I don't know about you but I am tired of being overworked, overextended and often over thinking. We have to decide we are not going to live this way any longer. Pray about it. Ask God what you can choose to do differently in your life to rest. Yes, rest! Rest entails so much more than taking a nap. We need to disengage mentally, emotionally and physically. - [Our mind is a gift!](https://royallifeministries.org/2015/09/our-mind-is-a-gift/) - Proverbs 23:7 says, "For as he thinks within himself, so he is. If you have followed my blogs for very long; you will know that this verse COULD seem contradictory to what I believe. We are made up of a body, soul and a spirit. The spirit determines our identity! What Jesus says about us is true, regardless of our behavior. However, I'm learning a lot these days about changing the quality of my life by my thoughts. So we will continue where I left off on the last blog. - [What's new with RLM?](https://royallifeministries.org/2015/10/whats-new-with-rlm/) - RLM will be celebrating their 10th Anniversary in 2016! We have been passionate about helping individuals and couples resolve emotional and relational pain, as well as, teach people their identity in Christ. A few years ago my passion grew to include helping women in the area of the physical aspect of their lives. God created us body, soul and spirit. (I Thes. 5) God wants us to live a whole and fulfilling life in every area. - [The Gift of Words](https://royallifeministries.org/2015/12/the-gift-of-words/) - If you are familiar with the book "The Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman; you will know that one of the love languages is "Words of affirmation." The book also list quality time, physical touch, gifts, and acts of service as languages that demonstrate love. We all have a love language. The focus of the book is to teach us to identify our love language AND identify your family and friends love language. We have to learn to love people in their love language. If we love them in our language, it will not be meaningful. I'm learning a lot these days about words of affirmation. - [The Joy of Eating](https://royallifeministries.org/2016/01/the-joy-of-eating/) - Food can be so delicious! It all started in the garden of Eden. God created everything and he said, "It is good!" Adam was even allowed to participate with God in the growing of fruits and vegetables. As Adam toiled the fields he probably felt a lot of fulfillment. Can you even imagine what those fruits and vegetables looked like and how they tasted? A problem always arises when human beings take what is good and try to make it better in their own strength and intellect. Isn't that how the story in the garden went south? "Did God really say? Oh, He just doesn't want you to be as good as Him but you can be a god too!" Thus started the mantra, "I did it my way!" But our way didn't work.We did not get what the evil one promised. We made things worse. - [I Wanna Know](https://royallifeministries.org/2016/03/i-wanna-know/) - Do you ever feel like you have to learn the same lessons over and over? As I walk through this journey called life, I am aware that I am constantly growing. I love having insight on my own belief systems and it's incredibly rewarding to see my clients have those aha moments. No one ever arrives! One rewarding thing about being in ministry in the field of counseling is many of my friends are counselor's. It's so nice to bounce some thoughts off of a colleague and allow them to speak into my life. It's also incredible to have the God of the universe living inside of me and who also speaks into my life. Sometimes He uses His word, sometimes He uses others and sometimes He uses circumstances. - [Things are not always as they seem](https://royallifeministries.org/2016/08/things-are-not-as-they-seem/) - Have there been times in your life when you were certain that something was exactly the way you saw it and then found out later you were wrong? I'm sure you have experienced this scenario if you have lived for any amount of time. It's interesting how certain we can become when judging another person's motives with no concrete proof. Many times our "concrete proof" is skewed and we are not seeing the entire picture. Our minds can sometimes convince us (with the power of indwelling sin) that something is absolutely true when it is not. I have encouraged some of my clients to say three words at the end of their definitive thought. "Maybe, maybe not." - [Perspective](https://royallifeministries.org/2016/09/perspective/) - I have found a new hobby that I just loved. Yes, I am one of those people that thoroughly enjoy the adult coloring books. And I find it quite interesting how God speaks to me through coloring. - [Justice](https://royallifeministries.org/2017/01/justice/) - Both sides of any dispute are completely convinced they are right and desperately want to show people the light. As I watch the faces and the signs in these marches and hear the reports on the news it is so interesting to see the measure of passion in each person. - [Legalism makes me mean](https://royallifeministries.org/2017/02/legalism-makes-me-mean/) - God is showing me so many things these days it will be hard to keep this blog short. Did you know that you have a fleshly default? The true you has been made one with Christ! This means HE has made you holy, righteous, acceptable and loving. But our ugly flesh patterns can always rise - [Under His wings](https://royallifeministries.org/2017/02/under-his-wings/) - No doubt, facebook has changed the temperature of community. Now everything we think ends up in black and white on a screen. We no longer have to think BEFORE we speak. We have to think BEFORE we type. Unfortunately, few of us take the time to slow down enough to think. And some of us suffer the consequences from the intolerant world where we reside. As I look at our society today I am in disbelief at how diverse the body of Christ has become. - [Thoughts regarding "The Shack" (Part One)](https://royallifeministries.org/2017/03/thoughts-regarding-the-shack/) - Yesterday Tim and I went to see the movie "The Shack" which is a movie made from a fiction book written by William P. Young. If you have been in Christian circles over the past ten years, you will know that there is a great deal of controversy regarding many things Paul Young wrote in this book. - [Thoughts regarding "The Shack" (Part two)](https://royallifeministries.org/2017/03/thoughts-regarding-the-shack-part-two/) - I'm not here to defend the author of The Shack or split hairs with theologians regarding the events in the movie. I'm simply sharing my thoughts of how this movie impacted me. I do not agree 100% with the author, yet God has used his book/movie to grow my view of God and life. If we ever reach the place that we stop growing, we are in a dangerous place. - [Controversy](https://royallifeministries.org/2017/04/controversy/) - James 4 tells us, "What causes quarrels and what causes fights among you? Is it not this, that your passions are at war within you?" As I watch passionate discussions on social media regarding politics or certain movie's or differing beliefs James 4 keeps coming to mind. - [Neglect](https://royallifeministries.org/2017/07/neglect/) - Webster’s dictionary describes neglect as: “To pay no attention or little attention to, disregard or slight, to be remiss in the care or treatment of, to omit through indifference or carelessness.” - [Connect](https://royallifeministries.org/2017/07/connect/) - Webster's dictionary defines the word connect as a way to establish communication between; to join, link, or fasten together; unite or bind. Disconnect is defined as an interruption to a connection or to detach. - [No Shame in needing meds](https://royallifeministries.org/2017/10/no-shame/) - Emotional healing from trauma is complicated. There are many ups and downs and curves in the road. At the beginning of the summer I believed that God was leading me to stop taking an anti depressant. I was wrong! I am a committed believer in Jesus who needs to take an anti depressant. - [Are you a good receiver?](https://royallifeministries.org/2017/12/are-you-a-good-receiver/) - I’ve been thinking a lot these days about the many GIFTS we have been GIVEN by Jesus. Of course the GIFT of HIMSELF is first and foremost. That GIFT has changed everything! HE loved us enough to leave the comforts of heaven, live on this earth for 33 years and die on a cross for our sins. - [What is truth?](https://royallifeministries.org/2017/12/what-is-truth/) - There is one question that I encourage my counselee’s to ask God when they are in a state of confusion. Father what is the truth? We live in a complex world with so many thoughts and passionate opinions. Can we trust our own mindset? In some cases I would say yes but in others I would say that we are not beyond being influenced by deception. - [Perfectly Imperfect Or Imperfectly Perfect](https://royallifeministries.org/2018/04/perfectly-imperfect-or-imperfectly-perfect/) - Does perfectionism affect you and your loved ones? It’s a sneaky coping mechanism (flesh pattern) that can cause a lot of frustration, shame and pain. The dictionary defines perfectionism 1. as a personal standard, attitude or philosophy that demands perfection and rejects anything less. 2. Any various doctrine holding perfection is attainable. 3. Attaining the highest degree of proficiency, skill or excellence. - [A Dry Season](https://royallifeministries.org/2018/10/a-dry-season/) - I love transparent people and think it is incredibly valuable when we can be real. The past two years for me has been hard. Actually it’s been one of the hardest times I’ve had in my entire spiritual journey. I was beginning to think that the “good times” I’ve had with the Lord were over to never return. - [Make no mistake](https://royallifeministries.org/2018/11/make-no-mistake/) - We just celebrated our 40th wedding anniversary! It was a glorious time of connecting and reminiscing over the good times and the bad times in our marriage. I thought this title might intrigue you to read this post. What we really want to say to all of our family and friends is...Make no mistake about it! Marriage is hard and no matter how wonderful it looks on Facebook it’s not the entire story! - [Growing through traveling](https://royallifeministries.org/2018/11/growing-through-traveling/) - I’m sitting on a plane traveling home from Breckenridge, CO. I’m thinking about all of the times I’ve flown on a plane in the past. As a little girl I was very fearful of everything. I had no desire to travel and I definitely had no desire to go anywhere if they spoke a different language. I would not know what anyone was saying! You see, control was extremely important to me. - [This is war](https://royallifeministries.org/2019/02/this-is-war/) - Do you ever feel like life is a battle? It seems that things are coming at us from the right and left sometimes. We are caught off guard and sometimes feel blindsided. But scripture tells us to not be surprised. - [Created for love](https://royallifeministries.org/2019/05/created-for-love/) - Did you know that we were created for love? The scriptures tell us that God is love and we were made in His image. Therefore we can give love and we can receive love. A constant flow of love travels through the Father to you and to me. We, in turn, allow His love to flow from us to others who in turn allow the love of the Father to flow through them back to us. It’s a beautiful process. - [Why pray?](https://royallifeministries.org/2019/05/prayer-i-dont-understand-it/) - How often do you pray? This question is not asked to make you feel guilty or condemned. It’s a question that can make us all stop and think. And why do you pray? - [Part Two - Why pray?](https://royallifeministries.org/2019/06/part-two-why-pray/) - Last week I started off my blog explaining that I often thought of questions regarding prayer. I truly did not understand it. How could I make a difference by praying a prayer? God is, well, God! - [In the face of death](https://royallifeministries.org/2019/07/in-the-face-of-death/) - No one likes to think about death. However, the older a person gets the more the subject will arise through conversations or attending another friend’s funeral. The Bible tells us that “when we grieve, we don’t have to grieve as those who have no hope.” - [What is salvation?](https://royallifeministries.org/2019/07/what-is-salvation/) - For those who were raised in the church we are very familiar with the term salvation. What seems familiar to us is not always familiar to many of our friends. I feel inspired to take a simple subject and talk about it from a simple approach. What do terms like born again or saved mean? - [What happened to me at salvation?](https://royallifeministries.org/2019/07/what-happened-to-me-at-salvation/) - I BELONG AND I AM FORGIVEN! Colossians 1:13-14 - For He has rescued us from the dominion of darkness and bought us into the kingdom of the Son He loves. In whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins. - [After Salvation](https://royallifeministries.org/2019/07/after-salvation/) - None of these things are FOR your salvation but what will help you grow in your faith. - [Confessions of a doubter](https://royallifeministries.org/2019/08/confessions-of-a-doubter/) - When you hear the word doubt what comes to your mind? If you have been around the Bible for any length of time you may think about doubting Thomas. Remember the story? After Jesus was resurrected Thomas could not believe it. - [My pleasure](https://royallifeministries.org/2019/09/my-pleasure/) - As I was studying the scriptures this morning the word pleasure jumped out at me in Ephesians 1. Did you know it was God’s pleasure to choose you, love you and adopt you as His very own child? Yes, God said, “my pleasure” when you were born into His family. - [God loves me](https://royallifeministries.org/2019/11/god-loves-me/) - No really, God LOVES me! And He LOVES you! How can that change your life? How can that statement NOT become so ordinary and common that it no longer moves you? Recently I have been thinking about this fact and how it affects different individuals. It’s been amazing how teachings keep grabbing my attention on this subject this week. - [Subscribe](https://royallifeministries.org/2020/01/subscribe/) - Would you like to receive our blog posts and newsletters via E-mail? We would love to stay in contact with you. We post 1 or 2 blog posts per month and send just a few newsletters each year. We promise to not fill up your inbox! Click to Subscribe! - [Love is...](https://royallifeministries.org/2020/02/love-is/) - Yesterday was Valentine's Day, a day for all to celebrate the wonderful characteristic of love. I started to say, the emotion of love but love is so much more than just an emotion. Of course, the scriptures tell us that God is love. What is love to you? My mind quickly goes to the love - [The Fearful American Christian](https://royallifeministries.org/2020/02/the-fearful-american-christian/) - I am in no way putting down fellow believers, but addressing something I struggle with and wonder how many others might struggle also. I never want to go back to the days where fear and legalism legislate my life, however, it's hard to know what to do with the world that we live in today. - [The Fearful World](https://royallifeministries.org/2020/03/the-fearful-world/) - I had no idea when I wrote my last post about the fearful American Christian that the world would practically fall apart in the coming weeks. We are living in unprecedented times with the onslaught of the coronavirus and life has changed for everyone. If we are afraid it means that we are human. And - [Where is Jesus?](https://royallifeministries.org/2020/03/where-is-jesus/) - Do you ever wonder where Jesus is when everything is falling apart? Maybe you didn't know that Jesus is really with you. As a matter of fact He is IN you, if you have invited Him into your life. We may intellectually know that fact but we don't always "experience" His presence. It brings me - [What is eternal life?](https://royallifeministries.org/2020/04/what-is-eternal-life/) - When we ask people that important question we usually get the same answer. It's living forever in heaven. I believe the Bible has a much broader definition of eternal life. In I John 1:1-2 the disciple John tells us that when Jesus appeared to them and spent three years teaching them that they were WITH - [Growing in your faith](https://royallifeministries.org/2020/04/growing-in-your-faith/) - Did you know that life is a classroom? We learn, develop, change, and evolve into the person God intended us to be through the things we experience in life. Scripture talks about newborn babies needing milk but as a child grows, they need more than milk. (I Corinthians. 3:2) I love the way the scriptures - [Irritability](https://royallifeministries.org/2020/05/irritability/) - How's everyone doing? I believe this may be week 10 or 11 of our quarantine. I was so proud of Tim and myself because we were doing so well for several weeks. I would encourage others, but I was smart enough to tell them that they can repeat back to me what I'm saying to - [An Eternal Perspective](https://royallifeministries.org/2020/05/an-eternal-perspective/) - You have heard me share about the dysfunction of my childhood but did you know that in the midst of chaos I came to know Jesus at 6 years old? My Sunday school teacher shared the gospel with me and I remember getting down on my knees and accepting Jesus into my heart. 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If I am not careful, I can become - [Hiding](https://royallifeministries.org/2020/09/hiding/) - A very common coping mechanism or "flesh pattern" is to hide. We hide when we feel shame. We hide out of fear. We hide to self-protect. Hiding can become addictive and its root cause is excessive caring about what others think. How often do you hide? As you have heard me say before, all "flesh - [There is a Reason](https://royallifeministries.org/2020/10/there-is-a-reason/) - My book, that I started 11 years ago, was released on Amazon today. I feel strongly that I need to share my heart with you. Writing a book about childhood abuse is difficult. Eleven years ago, I clearly heard a strong thought in my mind that I believe was God, "The title of your book - [Are you safe?](https://royallifeministries.org/2020/10/are-you-safe/) - What makes you feel safe? Safety is extremely important to me. Since I scored a 6 on the Enneagram it reinforced what I already knew. Safety is the key motivator for a "Loyalist" personality type. Websters tells us the definition of safe is "protected from or not exposed to danger or risk; not likely to - [Navigating difficult relationships](https://royallifeministries.org/2020/11/navigating-difficult-relationships/) - Thanksgiving is less than two weeks away. Do you have mixed emotions? Holidays mean family get-togethers and let's face it, it's not always enjoyable for everyone. Of course, we love one another, but sometimes we don't like one another. Just keeping it real here. I have enjoyed Michael Todd's series on "Forgiveness University." Listen to - [Jesus, who are you and what do you want?](https://royallifeministries.org/2020/11/jesus-who-are-you-and-what-do-you-want/) - I'm glad you asked. My child, I am the Savior of the world. (Luke 2:11). I am one with the Father. (John 10) I am love and I love you more than you can imagine. (John 3:16, I John 4:8). So what am I saving you from? 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[light](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/light/) - [darkness](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/darkness/) - [dreams](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/dreams/) - [redeem](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/redeem/) - [free](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/free/) - [acting out](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/acting-out/) - [belief systems](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/belief-systems/) - [battle](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/battle/) - [name](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/name/) - [need](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/need/) - [Concept of God](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/concept-of-god/) - [Hannah Whiteall Smith](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/hannah-whiteall-smith/) - [spring](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/spring/) - [life](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/life/) - [Mother's Day](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/mothers-day/) - [Father's Day](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/fathers-day/) - [Dr. Henry Cloud](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/dr-henry-cloud/) - [rejection](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/rejection/) - [expectation](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/expectation/) - [weight](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/weight/) - [choices](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/choices/) - [died to the law](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/died-to-the-law/) - [live by grace](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/live-by-grace/) - [self condemnation](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/self-condemnation/) - [self hatred](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/self-hatred/) - [health](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/health/) - [diets](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/diets/) - [self-contempt](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/self-contempt/) - [Heavenly Father cares](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/heavenly-father-cares/) - [surprise](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/surprise/) - [Grieve](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/grieve/) - [control](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/control/) - [brokenneess](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/brokenneess/) - 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[craving](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/craving/) - [taste buds](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/taste-buds/) - [spiritual warfare](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/spiritual-warfare/) - [voice](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/voice/) - [healthy choices](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/healthy-choices/) - [Heavenly Father's voice](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/heavenly-fathers-voice/) - [trouble](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/trouble/) - [tribulation](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/tribulation/) - [overcome](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/overcome/) - [provision](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/provision/) - [ask](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/ask/) - [receive](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/receive/) - [Heavenly Father](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/heavenly-father/) - [worry](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/worry/) - [soul](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/soul/) - [angry](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/angry/) - [balance](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/balance/) - [overworked](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/overworked/) - [thoughts](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/thoughts/) - [true](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/true/) - [fruits](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/fruits/) - [vegetables](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/vegetables/) - [nutrition](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/nutrition/) - [encouragment](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/encouragment/) - [words](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/words/) - [discouragement](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/discouragement/) - [Christmas gift](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/christmas-gift/) - [Joy](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/joy/) - [eating](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/eating/) - [physical](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/physical/) - [knowledge](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/knowledge/) - [Holy Spirit](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/holy-spirit/) - [accused](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/accused/) - [right](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/right/) - [give up rights](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/give-up-rights/) - [opinion](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/opinion/) - [Perspective](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/perspective/) - [mercy](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/mercy/) - [graceful](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/graceful/) - [fairness](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/fairness/) - [Controversy](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/controversy/) - [The Shack](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/the-shack/) - [men](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/men/) - [grow](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/grow/) - [arrogance](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/arrogance/) - [process](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/process/) - [quarrels](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/quarrels/) - [passion](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/passion/) - [interpretation of scripture](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/interpretation-of-scripture/) - [Neglect](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/neglect/) - [mindfulness](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/mindfulness/) - [present](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/present/) - [Sabbath](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/sabbath/) - [self care](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/self-care/) - [culture](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/culture/) - [Diane Altomare](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/diane-altomare/) - [Connect](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/connect/) - [disconnect](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/disconnect/) - [inner child](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/inner-child/) - [Christian](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/christian/) - [depression](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/depression/) - [medication](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/medication/) - [anti depressants](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/anti-depressants/) - [no shame](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/no-shame/) - [Gift](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/gift/) - [Receiver](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/receiver/) - 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[eternity](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/eternity/) - [Salvation](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/salvation/) - [saved](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/saved/) - [right with God](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/right-with-god/) - [born again](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/born-again/) - [Baptize](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/baptize/) - [set your mind](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/set-your-mind/) - [walk by the spirit](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/walk-by-the-spirit/) - [Doubt](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/doubt/) - [partner](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/partner/) - [support](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/support/) - [faithful](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/faithful/) - [financial](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/financial/) - [adopt](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/adopt/) - [paid the penalty](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/paid-the-penalty/) - [grandchildren](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/grandchildren/) - 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[gospel](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/gospel/) - [wrath](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/wrath/) - [vengeance](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/vengeance/) - [vindicate](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/vindicate/) - [country](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/country/) - [respectful](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/respectful/) - [disagree](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/disagree/) - [humbled](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/humbled/) - [war](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/war/) - [fight](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/fight/) - [warrior](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/warrior/) - [women](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/women/) - [heartache](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/heartache/) - [discouraged](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/discouraged/) - [community](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/community/) - [emotional pain](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/emotional-pain/) - [honesty](https://royallifeministries.org/tag/honesty/) - 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